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Exploring Our Children’s Potentials

14 July 2022 – 3:34 pm |

“Thanks” to today’s gadgets, more and more kids tend to say, “I don’t know what I’m good at. I don’t know what I like. I’m not interested in anything actually.” (But somehow they are interested …

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Parenting : A life-long journey

6 June 2007 | Posted in: Parenting | No Comment

The other day my friends and I were talking about our experiences as parents.

How we’ve perhaps taken steps in disciplining our kids and kind of ‘regret’ our approach afterwards. How we’ve responded or reacted in ways that we feel we shouldn’t have. How there are times when we feel we just can’t do the ‘job’ well.

Anyway. I think no one can instantly become good parents. We (need to) continually learn, improve and grow. Regardless of our age and our kids’ age.

Personally I learn and seek insights from books, the Bible and its principles (of course), websites as well as advices (and sharings) from friends, parents, other parents, their experiences, even the ‘mistakes’ they’ve done. I learn a lot too from sermons and fellowships. My hubby and I share, review and talk about parenting stuff too. And of course I learn most from my own actions. My own mistakes.

I’m (very) far from perfect, but I know that’s okay because I know I love my kids and I will strive to learn and become a good parent for them.

Parenting. Always a life-long learning journey.

My Ixus. In Anya’s hands.

5 June 2007 | Posted in: Daily, Photography | No Comment

Anya loves taking photos of stuff. The coffee table. Toys. Vai. Me. Daddy. Water fountain. Basically anything, really.

Even her feet and Vai’s.

And the fact that we now live in a ‘nearly-everyone-owns-a-digital camera’ era really helps in her experiments too!

After all, how can one discovers one’s talents if one never explores them?

PS: Just to re-confirm. Yes. Those four shots were taken by Anya.

Conversations with my 3-year-old girl

4 June 2007 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

I was in the kitchen washing the dishes when Anya came up and asked, “Mommy, how old is Po-Po?” (read: her grandma, my Mom)

I told her, “She’ll be 63 this year”. I then asked her, “So, is Po-Po young or is she old then?”

“She’s old.”

“Am I old or am I young?”

“You’re old, Mommy”

“How old do you think I am?”

[she paused for a few seconds]

“Eighty five.”

Photos in this blog

3 June 2007 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

I do get asked about this at times. And so to those who sometimes wonder, here’s the answer :

Nearly all photos in this blog are taken by the Mommy. And so unless otherwise stated, like the one above (or when both my hands can be seen in the photo, hehe), if I’m in the frame then it’d be me stretching my arm out as far as I can, with the camera facing me and the kids.

All done in the name of ‘capturing moments though no one’s around to take them for us’. Hehe.

Spending time together

2 June 2007 | Posted in: Crafts & Activity Ideas for Kids | No Comment

Vivo City‘s rooftop water feature.

For the first time. Kids played. On grass. On water.

Anya hopped and held on to Daddy’s hand.

Vai crawled all around the ankle-deep water (and tried to munch on the floating dried leaves when I wasn’t looking!)

Weather was nice.

It was all really nice.




Enjoying our time off

2 June 2007 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

We’re all busy. Everyday. Busy with work. With kids. With housework. With deadlines.

And amidst our busyness we often forget how important it is to find time and get away from all that.

To just … unwind. Take our shoes off. Relax and enjoy some togetherness time with our loved ones.

Children and their imagination

1 June 2007 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

The bedroom was unusually quiet. I went in and saw Anya sitting next to her bed, drawing on a piece of paper.

‘What’s that you’re drawing, Anya?’

‘A mommy, a daddy and their kids’.

*smile*

It’s always nice to see a kid explore and proactively draw something out of her imagination (instead of always needing to be told of ‘what to draw’).

Vai : 2 more weeks, and I’m THREE!

6 August 2009 | Posted in: Daily, Parenting | 4 Comments

Oh my.
The youngest one in our home is no longer a baby.
And to think that Vai will be three years old in two weeks time makes me miss those baby days.
[I know I’ve been asked …

Parenting: “Do Your Best!”

17 May 2021 | Posted in: Parenting | No Comment
Parenting: “Do Your Best!”

“Do your best!”, we often say to our kids.We tend to say it before they go for their exams, sports competitions, etc.But have we thought about what “Do your best!” mean TO THEM?…On top of …

Why We Should Let Children Carry Their Own Bag

10 October 2018 | Posted in: Inspirational, Parenting | No Comment

 
Ever seen kids whose school bags are carried by someone else (parent / grandparent / helper / nanny / driver)?
I have.
Quite frequently actually.
Errrr … I have even seen TEENS whose school bags / sports bags …

Marriage : staying together, staying happy (Part II)

6 September 2008 | Posted in: Marriage & Relationships | 3 Comments

We all know when it comes to marriage and keeping the relationship going for a long time, being ‘in love’ alone is not enough.
Because as much as two people love each other, they’re two individuals …

Mommy is a Wife and Daddy is a Husband

26 July 2015 | Posted in: Inspirational, Marriage & Relationships | 2 Comments

 
Here’s one food for thought I’d like to share with you this weekend:
So much emphasis is placed on being ‘the kind of parent God wants us to be‘.
But, while we struggle and strive to do …

Interviewed, SingaporeBrides.com: Together. For TEN years now.

7 July 2011 | Posted in: In the Media, Marriage & Relationships | No Comment

Today, Wilson and I have officially been married for TEN years.
Yes, ten good years.
I say that it’s been ‘good’ because it’s been that long without us ‘feeling’ it.
It sure does NOT mean our ten years …

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