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Giveaway : Nestle’s New Whole Grain Honey Star and Koko Krunch!

3 April 2009 | Posted in: Giveaways, Awards & Reviews | 33 Comments

Good news, everyone!

After my recent interview with a Nutritionist on healthy breakfast for kids, Nestle came to sponsor their newly launched WHOLE GRAIN breakfast cereals to Our Everyday Things readers , so you too can start your family’s day with a healthier choice of breakfast! (Thanks Nestle Singapore!)

And so I’ll be giving away 32 breakfast cereal sets to 32 winners! (am always happy if I can share something tangible to the readers!!)

Now.

Each set contains TWO large boxes (330g) of Nestle’s whole grain cereals (Honey Stars and Koko Krunch)

As for the giveaway, here’s what you need to do to enter :

Leave your comment on THIS blog post with answers to the following :

a. The age(s) of your kid(s)

b. What kind of breakfast they usually have each day (eg. a glass of milk + one slice of cheese + a slice of white bread with jam)

That’s it!



IMPORTANT INFO :

1. Make sure you enter a valid email address so I can contact you if you’ve won

2. Please leave your comment to enter the giveaway contest IF you agree to SELF-COLLECT your Nestle’s Breakfast Cereal Set from Lavender Place during office hours, if you’ve won.

[Self collection from another place MAY be possible IF I happen to be in that area too on specific days. I’ll email the winners personally to let them know when and where]

3. Contest is open only to those who live in Singapore (one entry per family please)

4. Winning breakfast cereal sets are to be collected within TWO weeks after the results are announced

5. Contest ends next Friday, 10 April 2009, or when there are already 32 comments received!

So. Do tell your friends and families about the free Nestle’s whole grain breakfast cereals giveaway yeah!

[added on 7 April 09, 4.20pm)
Comments are closed as we already have 32 commenters right now. Thank you all!

My interview with a Nutritionist : Healthy breakfast for kids

1 April 2009 | Posted in: Daily, Food & Health | 8 Comments

When I was away in Perth recently, I got an email inviting me to interview Cereal Partners Worldwide’s Nutrition Manager based in Sydney, Nilani Sritharan, who’ll be in Singapore for two days as a speaker for a symposium with healthcare professionals, and share it on my site.

[Cereal Partners Worldwide is a joint venture between Nestlé and American food giant General Mills]

Nilani’s touring around the region too to share her expertise on how and why healthy breakfast is important, especially for kids.

Being a parent of two myself, I’d sure want to know more about what’s nutritious for kids. And I’m sure lots of other parents would love to find out about it too.

I checked the calendar, and hey, I’d be back in Singapore just in time for the interview.

And so I said yes. I interviewed Nilani, and had a nice chat with the lovely ladies from the PR agency and Nestlé.

And, here’re some of my questions :

Leonny : We’ve always heard about how breakfast is the most important meal of the day. Can you share with me some of the reasons?

Nilani : When kids (us included) start their day with a balanced breakfast, they can concentrate better at school. They’re more alert and it prevents them from snacking. And if for example, they have whole grain cereals for breakfast, the fibre content combined with energy from complex carbohydrates also keeps the child full for a longer time.

Leonny : You mentioned ‘whole grains’. What is it really all about?

Nilani : Whole grains consist of 3 parts, a fibre-rich outer layer, a nutrient-packed inner area and a central starchy part (which contains energy, carbohydrates and some B vitamins).

A whole grain (eg. corn, wheat, rice, oats) has all 3 parts intact, while a refined grain (eg. white rice) has had the outer and inner part removed during processing. This is why whole-grains are packed with more vitamins, minerals and fibre.

A whole grain diet for breakfast helps provide kids (and adults) the energy to support their mental and physical activities throughout the day.

Leonny :  So what do you think should be included in a ‘healthy breakfast’?

Nilani : It should contain some complex carbohydrates for energy (eg. bread, cereals, rice), dairy foods rich in calcium (for healthier bones and teeth), fruits, and a drink to keep kids hydrated and alert. Children get the nutrients they’re supposed to get in their breakfast, and if they skip breakfast, they won’t make up for those nutrients later during the day.

Leonny : Since my daughter started nursery last year, she never misses her breakfast (mostly because her class starts at 11.30am and we have enough time for breakfast). The problem is, many parents feel they’re too busy to prepare a wholesome breakfast for the kids (especially if their kids start school early in the morning). What’s your advice?

Nilani : Busy parents can consider going for fruits and whole grain breakfast cereals served with milk. It’s relatively fast to prepare and it’s nutritious for the kids.

Leonny:  Some people are afraid of putting on weight if they have some heavy breakfast. What’s your view?

Nilani : When you skip breakfast you’ll make up for it throughout the rest of the day. You’ll most likely eat more at lunch, suppertime and in between. Everyone should go for a balanced three or four meals a day.

It all comes down to how much calories you get and how much calories you burn. What you have throughout the day is more important than ‘when’ you’re having it.

Leonny : How about kids who are not too interested in eating fruits, vegetables or whole grains?

Nilani : When parents enjoy it, the kids are likely to follow. And according to research, you just need to have them available, and after a while the kids will most likely give it a try. Have cut fruits available, serve unsalted popcorn, etc. Involve kids in food preparation (eg. let them wash the vegetables)

Leonny : Not many families naturally incorporate whole grains in their diet. When I’m in a supermarket for example, I’d automatically grab a loaf of white bread. What are some of the things we can do to start getting more whole grains in our daily diet?

Nilani : It’s all about changing your habit. You can try :

a. Swapping white rice for brown rice (start by mixing white rice with brown rice)
b. Switching to whole meal noodles
c. Going for whole meal bread
d. Starting the day with whole grain breakfast cereal

Nestle Breakfast Cereals now come with the ‘Whole Grain Seal’ (the big tick at the top right of the box) which makes it easier for parents to spot which ones are whole grains.

Nilani and I continued on chatting with the rest of the ladies about random stuff after the interview. It was all nice and good.

And after the interview was over, I did think about my own family’s diet and how I should start introducing more whole grains too.

We all like Honey Stars, so getting Nestle’s new whole grain Honey Stars is an easy decision!

But when it comes to bread and rice, I admit I’ve always been a ‘white bread’ and a ‘white rice’ person, so for me to start going for grain, I know it’d need to be a conscious effort from me.

To occasionally choose a loaf of wholemeal bread. To cook brown rice once in a while for a change.

Because regardless of what I personally like and dislike, I do feel that when mommies start believing in the goodness of grains, so will the rest of the family.

Perth Trip : Visiting Andrew, Karen and the boys

30 March 2009 | Posted in: Daily | 7 Comments

I love how we got to meet up with old friends during our recent trip to Perth (though we hoped we could meet more friends, and spend more time with those we’ve met!)

And, we managed to catch up with Andrew, Karen and their boys when we’re there.

[I shared how I first knew Andrew and Karen last July when they both were here in Singapore for the ‘Doing the Karen Cheng’ charity event]

They invited us over for a casual dinner and we had such a relaxing time there.

I mean, Wilson and I actually managed to have a good – and relatively ‘uninterrupted’ – chat with them, while the four kids were busy playing in another room!

We had a great time that night!

PS: Two weeks after that, Karen gave birth to their third son, Liam! Congrats Andrew and Karen!

Sunday’s Food for Thought : When other people are better

29 March 2009 | Posted in: Inspirational | One Comment

When we look at ourselves and others, do we have a tendency to see more of our own strengths and more of other people’s weaknesses?

If that is the way we tend to view things, we (sadly) will never be a blessing to others.

There are people who tend to only utter criticism, but never encouraging words. And it is usually because such people find no room in their heart to accept, see and hear about other people’s strengths.

If there are people who are better than me, how should I react? We should ‘accept’ that fact, AND be thankful for it.

When we have a big heart that is big enough to accept other people’s strengths and victories, we will be a happier person.

Let us strive to have a heart and mind that can accept other people’s strengths, enjoy other people’s victories and verbally acknowledge other people’s talents and gifts.

“A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones.”
Proverbs 14:30

Earth Hour 2009

28 March 2009 | Posted in: Daily | 6 Comments

Singapore. Food Republic @ Vivo City.

8.30pm – 9.30pm. Earth Hour.

The day we had our very first ‘family candle-light dinner’, at a food court.

Where were you during Earth Hour? Did you participate?

Perth Trip : Checking out Fremantle

A must-see if you’re in Perth for a short stay.

Fremantle is known as Western Australia’s ‘other’ capital. Lots of shops, restaurants, cafes, fruit markets, souvenir and handmade stuff.

And if you head towards its Fishing Boat Harbour, you’ll find fresh seafood places, maritime museums and jetties (I love the jetties!).

We went there twice recently.

Once in the afternoon with my parents and grandparents to try out yummy fish and chips and seafood at Cicerello’s.

I was most amazed at their aquarium (said to be 22-meter long!). It’s right in the middle of the restaurant and when I went to the ladies, I could see MORE aquariums along the corridor too! The kids loved it! Stingrays, sharks, sea horses, starfish and lots more, all caught in Fremantle waters!

The second time we went there was at night time. To let the kids try out fishing!

Wilson used to go fishing with his friends the last time he was in Perth, but none of us are ‘pros’ (read: he’s okay but I am hopeless at it!).

We wanted the kids to experience what it’s like though (and Anya’s SO looking forward to it even before we left for Perth), and so we went to one of the harbours at 9.30pm.

While Wilson prepared the fishing rod and baits, I got the kids to finish up their milk (whenever we’re out and about, I prepared UHT milk for them, comes in packets of 200 – 250ml)

And hey what do you know. Once we got our bait in the waters, we caught two fishes! Hehe. Small ones, about 12cm long, all within 20 mins (we saw people not too far from us catching much much bigger fishes!). We released ours back into the waters, went home at 10.30pm and both kids dozed off immediately after.

I love how we could expose the kids to new learning experiences. And how we got to do stuff that we don’t normally do in Singapore.

How I thank God for the family. And for experience.

Photos: Cicerello’s shots were taken by Wilson

Siblings : Wanting what the other has

26 March 2009 | Posted in: Daily | 7 Comments

It’s like an unwritten rule amongst siblings.

I want what she’s having. Why is my boiled egg ‘smaller’ than his? Can I have Ribena too?

Or, in this case, I want a towel wrapped around me too, just like my sister.

Well.

As long as it means you both are happy (read: no snatching nor tears involved), I’m fine with that, little buddy.

Time for some Twosome Time

14 August 2009 | Posted in: Parenting | 14 Comments

Anya is now in Kindergarten (K1), and Vai will start going to nursery school (N2) in January next year.
[Fyi, here in Singapore at four years of age, children can attend N2; at five years old, …

Dangling a Carrot to Change Behaviour

24 August 2021 | Posted in: Parenting | No Comment
Dangling a Carrot to Change Behaviour

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Smoking : Kids Watch. Kids Learn.

13 August 2009 | Posted in: Food & Health, In the Media, Inspirational, Parenting | 8 Comments

I’ve written quite a few blog posts on how ‘adults greatly influence little children’ over the years.
How kids observe and learn from what they see and hear. How they are great imitators. How they are …

Daddy and the Family

19 August 2008 | Posted in: Marriage & Relationships, Parenting | 5 Comments

Once in a while I do write about daddies and how important their role, active involvements and contribution are in the family and in raising the children.
How it’s not just about being the one who …

Thoughts: ‘Always’ and ‘Never’

28 October 2011 | Posted in: Inspirational, Marriage & Relationships | 6 Comments

“You NEVER listen to me!”
“He is ALWAYS very rude!”
“Why did you behave that way? You’re ALWAYS making me angry!”
“I can NEVER do it!”

I don’t know about you, but Wilson and I – since our dating …

Thoughts and Tips for All Husbands

15 August 2013 | Posted in: Marriage & Relationships, Parenting | No Comment

 
My husband and I attended a 3-day parenting workshop last week, and it was such a blessing.
We learned and were reminded of so many things too.
Now, since I usually blog about motherhood and kids, this …

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