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Exploring Our Children’s Potentials

14 July 2022 – 3:34 pm |

“Thanks” to today’s gadgets, more and more kids tend to say, “I don’t know what I’m good at. I don’t know what I like. I’m not interested in anything actually.” (But somehow they are interested …

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Covid-19 Days: Back to Online School

26 January 2022 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

These days, being able to physically go to school is a treasure.

I don’t know how it is with your kids, but mine look forward to attending school physically, meeting friends in person, and listening to teachers who actually stand in front of them.



This photo was taken earlier today.

Tomorrow all three of them are back to online learning.

Hope things get better soon.

Exploring: Paniisan Hill, Sentul

Saturday spent amidst lots of green.

Making new friends, appreciating nature and the great outdoors.

14 km trek.

Mud. Rain. Cool breeze. Awesome view.

♥️

Have Our Children Been Prepared to Live in the World?

19 January 2022 | Posted in: Inspirational, Parenting | No Comment

I look at my 3 kids and I feel time flies real fast.

(The eldest turns 18 in less than 2 months!)

Anyway, just the other day, I found my old notes from attending a parenting seminar some years ago.

Am grateful for the reminders.

Here are some of them:

🎈 Our children are entrusted into our hands for a short while, for us to raise and teach according to their Redeemer’s plans and will. They are not like paintings or antiques, which we put on display to gain people’s attention and compliments.

🎈Children are like arrows (Psalm 127), and parents will need to release their arrows one day. The question is, have they been prepared to live in the world and to be away from us?

🎈Raising children is a spiritual warfare. Whether or not our children care about spiritual matters depends a lot on whether their parents introduce them since they’re little.



I often say to my kids, “I don’t know how much time I still have with you. No one knows when we’ll leave the world. But as long as you are still with us, Mommy and Daddy will teach you, as much as possible, things which you need to know and learn, to live in the world without us. You may not like it when we rebuke / tell you off / ask you to stop doing something which we believe is not good for you. Dealing with your resistance / talkbacks are emotionally exhausting, too. But the way I see it, it’s like preparing each of you to go to war, we need to equip and train you as best as we can, while we still can, before you actually leave home. We do what we need to do, because we love you and we are accountable to God to raise you during the limited time we have with you.”



I know I am still learning along the way.

May God help every parent, and give us the wisdom, mercy and patience needed daily.

Brie: A 10.5yo Emcee

18 January 2022 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

The youngest in the family is now 10.5 years old.

Time flies, huh!

And, she’s one of the four emcees at her school’s virtual concert.

If you ask me, I feel grateful for the opportunity given to her, where she can learn and exercise her public speaking skills.



In these photos, she’s wearing some traditional costumes that I managed to put together from whatever that we have at home, hehe.

(The scarf is called “ulos”, a school principal presented it to Wilson when he was in North Sumatra, right after his ministry to students. Honoured!)

Covid-19 Days: Off to School. Physically.

17 January 2022 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

Off to school, physically, all three of them, for the first time since March 2020!

Primary. Junior High. Senior High.

Learn, have fun, and make memories.

♥️

Brie: 2nd Covid-19 Vaccination

13 January 2022 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

2nd shot done. Sinovac.

♥️

Grateful to see how vaccination drive for 6-11yo goes well in Indonesia.

Soon it begin its 3rd vaccination drive for all, for free 🙏🏻

These Moments: Cousins. Now and Then.

9 January 2022 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

[‘These moments’: An attempt to capture moments within the week. No words. Simple. Special. Moments I wish to treasure and remember.]

Exploring: Kuningan and Lembang, West Java

8 January 2022 | Posted in: Places to Visit, Video | No Comment

Blessed to still be able to explore and enjoy nature and the outdoors together ♥️

Mountains. Paddyfields. Valleys. Waterfalls. Tea plantations.

Marriage: Communicate and Relate

21 July 2020 | Posted in: Marriage & Relationships, Parenting | No Comment

 
Sin makes husbands and wives say to each other:
‘It’s your fault!’
‘It’s because of YOU!’
‘You did it!’
Husband and wife blame each other.
They each focus on ‘self’ (I need to be heard, I need to be …

Children: Feel and Know How Much They Are Loved

10 August 2019 | Posted in: Parenting | No Comment

 
One of the things we hope our children can confidently say, feel and know is, how their parents love them very much.
And for them to feel THAT assured, … we humbly realise how it will …

Parenting Tips and Thoughts : Great expectations

23 June 2008 | Posted in: Inspirational, Parenting | 4 Comments
Parenting Tips and Thoughts : Great expectations

If you expect your children to think and behave more ‘adult-like’ BEFORE they’re developmentally ready to perform them, we’re in a way threatening their sense of emotional security.
Trying to meet parents’ expectations but not yet …

Marriage : staying together, staying happy (Part II)

6 September 2008 | Posted in: Marriage & Relationships | 3 Comments

We all know when it comes to marriage and keeping the relationship going for a long time, being ‘in love’ alone is not enough.
Because as much as two people love each other, they’re two individuals …

Thoughts : Married to Our Spouse, Not to Our Children

6 June 2013 | Posted in: Inspirational, Marriage & Relationships | No Comment

When we become parents, the reality is, children will demand a lot of our time and energy.
Breastfeeding / bottle-feeding them, preparation of meals, feeding, bathing and playtime, changing of diapers, dealing with tantrums and behaviours.
Not …

Juggling my many roles

30 September 2005 | Posted in: Marriage & Relationships | No Comment

Last night someone asked about how my typical day goes. And come to think of it, it’s kind of hard to say, because it hardly is the same everyday. I mean, we may be out …

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