Driving past homes, we naturally love seeing beautifully maintained lush gardens with well-trimmed flowers and trees.
Such gardens don’t happen over night though.
Countless hours of consistent care and maintenance must have been given to produce such …
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Seminar: Secrets of Christian Courtship and Marriage

Today all five of us attended a full-day seminar on ‘courtship and marriage’ (Rahasia Pacaran & Pernikahan Kristen).
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Here are a few points that I wish to share with you:
💑 It’s not about finding the right …
Food for Thought on Valentine’s Day

Whether we realise it or not, our perception / expectation of what Valentine’s Day ‘should be like for us’ is influenced by ‘how much we choose to absorb and accept’ the values found in:
– the …
Better Today: 17 Years Together

I guess we are now closer to ‘reality’ than 17 years ago.
On the left:
We’re well-dressed, in an air-conditioned studio, standing by a piano, and asked to look out a window (with no view, haha).
Things ‘had …
Marriage: Conflicts are Normal

Conflict is an integral part of married life.
Inability of couples to handle & resolve their differences is a bigger problem than the conflict itself.
– Salvador Minuchin
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Many people enter marriage with ideals.
They imagine ‘happily ever after’ …
Guard Your Marriage

The easiest way to break our future generation and their hope for ‘potential joy and happiness in a lasting relationship while on this earth’, is to break marriages.
Break husband-wife relationships.
Make them NOT forgive each other.
Make …
Together, Over the Years

Not our anniversary day, but it’s nice to remember the different lands we have explored and the memories we have created together as hubby and wife, not just on Valentine’s Day 😍
Let’s spread love to …
Nurturing Marriage: Pray and BUILD IT

Every marriage is potentially fragile.
‘Pray to God for providence, help and mercy on your marriage!‘, would be the common advice given by people of the faith.
I absolutely agree with the advice.
It is something that we …