Loving Each of Our Children
I love all my three children.
But, sometimes I do feel guilty.
Guilty of not spending much time – quality time – with each of my children.
(Well, not the baby. She’s still breastfed and very much physically cared for by me, so we do spend lots of time together)
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Perhaps it’s just a feeling that moms of three (or more) tend to have?
Any other moms ever feel the same way?
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I totally agreed, I am constantly guilty for not making much private time for the elder 2 brothers.
Yes, totally understand that situation.
For me, I try to make up for this by physically showing to them how much I care and love them each. Hugs, cuddles, not allowing child no. 2 interrupt (he’s got to wait, .. same approach applies to kid no. 1) when I’m listening to no.1 sharing her stories, etc.
I think that’s normal feeling.. it is happening to everyone…
Time for work and money caused all this feeling. So, guilty feeling is good sign for next better action… 🙂
Yes, I can see your point. When we feel guilty, it drives us to find better solutions … (hopefully none of us stops at just feeling guilty =)
Erm, yes, both my wife and I have the same feeling – not able to spend much time with the babies.
Now with the small sister, time to spend on the big brother are less. We just wanted to accompany him whenever is possible.
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Thanks for sharing …