Trust and Communication
In marriage (and all relationships, including parent-child relationships), TRUST is needed.
When trust is absent, all attempts to build communication and relation most likely will fail.
Build that trust over time.
And beware, it takes years to build trust in relationships, and only takes a second to break it to pieces.
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Food for thought.
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Inspired by a conversation with Rev. Sutjipto Subeno long time ago