On good days
She’d giggle and laugh at the silliest jokes
She’d sing and sing like there’s no tomorrow (nor neighbours!)
She’d request for something, then nod with understanding when I tell her that it’s not possible to do that now
She’d volunteer and proactively help around the house
She’d say grace before her meals, take a spoonful, and say “Yummm… thank you Mommy for cooking this yummy food!’
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In reality though, there’s always a balance (read: good days and cranky days).
But then again, as parents I feel we should always try to treasure those good moments and remind ourselves to react accordingly and growl (read: rebuke strongly, but still with self control!) proportionately during their grumpy days.
Easier said than done.
But I guess I have to say, it’s never impossible. With God’s strength.